I would ask what is turning you on about the situation?
The baby would be unaware of what was going on, other than being irritated at the disturbance of his peaceful feeding. If you think about it, the baby was far closer to that act when you were banging her in the third trimester. Also, if the baby is in a bassinet during the night, it's been pretty close to the act anyway. Finally, family units used to live in very tight quarters and it was fairly common for different generations to be in the same space as intimacy.
Now, having said all of that, I personally would not have sex with my wife WHILE she was breastfeeding. It is not the time for a sexual act. Also, the child could bite and injure her. I suspect it's as much a jealousy issue for you than anything else. The boobs are huge and you don't get to play with them. Plus, the wife is showing more attention at the time to someone other than you. Then there's the raging "I'm a man, I make baby, hear me roar!" testosterone surge...
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