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Originally posted by phredgreen
sit her down, tell her exactly what you're feeling with no candy coating, and leave her behind you. this mnay sound a little extreme, but in five years from now, if you don't do this you'll wish like hell you would have.
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It's entirely possible that five years from now
she'll wish like hell you'd told her the truth. If she's got a track record of bad relationships chances are it's not just the other person's fault - the common denominator in all of
her failed relationships appears to be
her. It'll be bitter medicine, but telling her - gently and compassionately - why you don't want to be with her could be doing her a huge favor. A much bigger favor than letting her down easy with vague excuses and leaving her to keep making the same mistakes in relationship after relationship.