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Many teenagers are confused, frightened, and generally angry. This often manifests into things like these: vandalism, offensive language, violent posturing, etc. They're acting out based on their own damaged sense of self-worth.
Most people grow out of it once they find self-worth and become less selfish and outwardly/inwardly destructive.
I would expect more responsible and balanced adults to not respond to this sort of thing in kind. I would hope that many would understand that these types of teenagers are often those with problems deeper than "I like to wreck stuff and threaten people."
It's anti-social behaviour, yes, but I'm not sure how common it is or how long it tends to go on in most people into adulthood. I think a lot of it takes different, more nuanced forms. They become the people you have difficulty with in the workplace and in traffic, etc.
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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