i'm gonna give you this big ax here.. what i need you to do is to take it and completely sever this relationship right fucking now.
you have already said you have no interest in taking things any further with this girl. bravo to you that you know what you want and what you don't want. you have already said you don't want to hurt this girl. bravo to you for being sensitive enough to understand her needs and wants.
understand this: the longer you are with someone you don't want to be with, the more miserable you will become. there is no reason to prolong this angush in either of your lives. sit her down, tell her exactly what you're feeling with no candy coating, and leave her behind you. this mnay sound a little extreme, but in five years from now, if you don't do this you'll wish like hell you would have.
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