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I'll qualify my statements by saying that I beleive in a traditional marriage and a monogamous relationship. In that sense your marriage is over. Once a woman says she doesn't love you she never will. I don't care what people say about reconciliation and foregiveness. If anything people get back together out of guilt and loneliness. I had this happen to me. My ex uttered those very words. We went to counseling. I made every effort I could to save the marriage and in the end it came out she was a cheat.
Just move on. Everyone will be happier for it. Sounds like right now the sex is good. Maybe she's thinking of the other guy when she's w/you. Are you strong enough (confident) to live with that idea in your head? Since she's already had "encounters" with this guy and knows the size of his junk I'll take the under that she'll be with him shortly.
I'm sorry that this crap happens to people but no one's perfect.
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