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I would never get into a long-term relationship with somebody if there was even a question in my mind as to whether or not she'd call rape if I tried to wake her up with some surprise sexin'...
That just doesn't fly in my book. Trust issues much?
Bottom line: If I'm in a long-term relationship with someone, them trusting me and being completely comfortable with me has a very big hand in me being there. Not in the mood for sex? Say, "Hey, sorry, but I'm not really in the mood right now." I'll jump off and take a cold shower if necessary.
Perhaps I'm being a bit insensitive towards certain circumstances that could be in place here, but I believe you should have worked through base issues in a relationship before you started considering it a long-term thing.
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