Whoa.....
I can almost guarantee that once you snoop into someone else's computer, what ever remains of a relationship are pretty done.
I think Snowy said it best that a healthy relationship is built on trust.
As for the issue about the graveyard shifts, my beau works the graveyard, and I work full time during the days. I know it can be tough scheduling around eachother, and we live together. We can go days with only seeing eachother for a cumulative amount of maybe 20 minutes if we are lucky. That means the little time that we do spend together are more special and I think you do know what I mean.
When relationships get tough, both parties have to work together and make the effort to work out what is wrong. If there is baggage, then both of you have to work it out together to fix it. A relationship is like building a house. There's a lot of effort and work and sacrifices to make sure to stands to code. It's not as easy as putting up a couple of 4x4's and making a tent.
If neither of you are willing to make the sacrifices to make things work out, then you are as good as single.
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