Thanks everyone for your input. I know we will have to talk about it and your feedback has helped me on how to frame up the discussion. No one likes to talk money, but right now I think we're in the "feeling each other out about co-habitating" stage of things. I think you are right - it's not a 'macho' thing with him - I think it really is that he doesn't want me to feel like he's taking advantage and I respect that.
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