This is one of the major things I can't stand! My husband does this to me all the time. me - "whats wrong hunny?" him - "nothing". And its so obvious that something is wrong but he won't tell me. My feelings get hurt easily, still today after so many years of him doing this. I haven't learned to leave it alone. I try ... but ... most of the time I can't. I'm getting better at letting him have his time though.
I'm not like this ... if you ask me whats wrong I'll tell you and won't hold anything back. I find that to be one of the many flaws I have. But, at least I'm willing to talk about the things that are bothering me when I'm asked instead of saying 'nothing' and having the other person wonder whats happening.
Lydia
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