oh okay I figured it was better not to go on and on .... well Ive been dating my guy about 8 months, Im 30, hes 39 , I want to spend more time with him , he likes his time alone , so I usually dont see him much on the weekdays , he does ask me to come see him during his work supper break , but I would rather him invite me over when he gets home from work, Im a night person so it wouldnt bother me to come over for abit even if I dont stay the night , it bugs him that I toss and turn , and I guess I snore sometimes too, and his sex drive is alot lower than mine , Ive had issues with that before, I just have a really high sex drive , anyway, Im wondering if I should take the next step and move in with him because Im not sure I want a signif other that works those hours and hardly ever wants to have sex . I see couples on week nights going for walks together and what not and I wish I had that . I think his baggage from the past is causing him to keep distance from me , scared to move forward , he says him and his ex moved in together too soon , anyway I snooped on his computer last month and he has photos of an ex, and hes talked about his exs alot and I feel like he already committed to others and now he just wants to be selfish and have everything his way , hes had 2 long term common law relationships and a few other relationships , hes been burned alot ,
but Ive also been hurt alot but I dont cling to the past like he does , I just want to move forward and be happy . Im confused because he says he loves me and I do really care for him alot .
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