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Why, yes. That changes things, this knowledge has definitely upgraded her perceived character. However, she still is on a different page than you in major life decisions. That alone is enough to terminate the romantic portion of your relationship.
You need to EMBRACE the feeling you had when you found out she was pregnant and was going to KEEP the baby, regardless of the effects it would have on your lives. You need to be able to conjure that feeling at will...every time your willy starts wagging at this woman. She'll put you back in that place in a heartbeat.
Only a parent can truly know how your life was REALLY going to change because of that child. At this point, you can only imagine. It means 100 times more than you can even speculate.
Go find someone with the same current set of life goals. Last I counted, there's 3 billion women on the planet - many of whom would suit you.
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Gives a man a halo, does mead.
"Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly."
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