Thread: Divorce. Again.
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Old 08-01-2010, 06:24 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I feel for you, and I wish you the best. It's not uncommon for husbands to feel blind-sided by divorce. But I have some questions for you.

Have you been to marriage counseling? Or even individual counseling?

Is she right - are you unwilling to change?

If you know what the problem is (her feeling unsupported), have you done anything about it? Do you feel like she's making unreasonable demands?

It seems like you're giving up in defeat instead of looking at what you could be doing to salvage the situation.
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