Wes Mantooth

Sure we've all been in a slump before...meeting girls is kind of like fishing, no matter how good the bait sometimes they just aren't biting so you go home kill off a case of beer and fall asleep watching porn...or something. However like any good fisherman you don't just give up you go back out the next day or find a different spot and eventually you start reeling em in.

Meeting girls at a bar can be kind of iffy, in my experience you never really know what to expect the next day and sadly even getting a phone number isn't a golden ticket to the promised land. Maybe you were too interested, came on too strong and she didn't want to be rude so she handed you a fake number, it happens. Maybe she was drunk and didn't really remember, or had a case of the beer goggles. Once she got home and she slept it off she realized she didn't want to see the guy from the bar as much as she thought (its nothing personal just sometimes you change your tune the next day). You never really know, that's why I just let it go and move on, its not worth getting upset over.

I could sit her sit here and list off a hundred reasons why shit like that happens but never the less don't let it get you down. Rejection sucks but it happens and unless you're completely socially inept you shouldn't have a problem bringing and end to the slump. Perhaps work on your approach, what you talk about or change your look a little to spice things up. If your usual spots aren't working try something new...like, I don't know a night class, a club/group that suits your interests, join a gym or whatever. If you're just rusty with a little practice you should get yourself back in pick up shape in no time.

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