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Originally Posted by monkey baby
As for antithesis; How is being curious about what gets your man off and wanting to please him in (almost) whatever way you can controlling?
I've also tried to get him to watch porn with me and he just can't do it. He will look away. I think he is still ashamed in some way for watching/reading porn. Maybe it was beat into his head as a kid that it was wrong or something.
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I wouldn't randomly spring the "Daddy" thing on him though, it's reasonable that he could be genuinely unhappy with the fact that he has a fetish for that sort of thing and that it would be like a kick in the balls to do it.
I think there's a really good chance it could be that last one. It doesn't require a citation to say that fetishes can often be counter to one's cultural values, if they make any sense at all, and that porn in general can leave someone feeling ashamed of consuming it at least publically.
If I were your guy I'd say that I would want my SO to just openly voice her concerns about the general situation without necessarily bringing up specifics or making me feel more like a deviant than I might already.
Also can anyone see into where he is? If he's doing it out in public and the neighbors can see that can cause some serious problems.