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I don't think there is really enough info to really make a judgement either way but from what you've posted maybe it is time to cut your losses and move on. Sometimes relationships just plain old cool down and the spark that once existed fades into just being comfortable and neither person (like you put it)wants to bother with the guilt or the drama of breaking up. Both parties start meeting other people, new attractions develop that are more exciting and a ridiculous game of "lets see how long I can go without cheating on this person I don't really like anymore anyway" starts up.
Sure if you feel like this relationship is worth saving you could put in the time and effort and give it the old college try...but in my experience its kind of a gamble, either it works and things heat back up or it falls apart anyway and you feel that much worse when it does because you've recommitted when she hasn't. Never the less as others have said try telling how you feel if you're really bothered by whats going on, of course things go to the shitter if you just sit quietly and watch her slowly drift out of your life.
Personally I'd just read the writing on the wall and tell her to fuck off (unless I felt like something VERY meaningful exists that is worth saving)...but then again I'm thirty and very single...so yeah take that advice for what its worth.
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