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You're just a third wheel until she works this out. She obviously would rather have the fantasy of the other guy, than the reality of you. This doesn't sound healthy to me. I think your term "rebound" is apt, but I would say "whipping boy" before "counselor".
I see it as a no-win situation for you. She'll either have unrealistic expectations that you will somehow save her from all of this, or just go ahead and start blaming you for all the things she can't hang onto the other guy.
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bill hicks - "I don't mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am, so that's how it comes out."
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