If you are unable to experience the same level of attraction to your girlfriend, you should first ascertain whether or not that is solely due to the obesity. Could you be reacting negatively to her sexual inhibition, or perhaps a perceived lack of effort on her part to physically improve? If so, maybe you could cease drawing attention to her obesity, express more physical attention, and initiate sex with greater frequency. You might not be as excited in the bedroom at first, but if she senses that you still want her, I would guess that both her mood and willingness to lose weight will naturally improve.
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Originally Posted by Plan9
I think that a consensus of male TFP users would declare that you are, in fact, not fat and that they would react to you like the cartoon wolf reacted to the cartoon redhead.
Also: Damn, girl.
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I can back up this statement. The physique depicted in the two photos approaches my ideal and is highly attractive, particularly your facial features and thighs. Of course, nudes are required for a more informed opinion, as the clothing interferes with visual assessment.