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I had a bit of the same thing when I was dating a lawyer while still in college. I had no problem when she paid when we went out (I was a poor college kid)... but big ticket items I was always uncomfortable with. I just felt I would have been in her debt, regardless of the fact she just wanted her boyfriend to go on vacation with her, or she knew there was something I wanted that I couldn't afford.
She has a lot of pride and an "I can do it myself" attitude which will take her far.
Would you rather her be a gold digger?
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