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I've been this girl... ex had a job, then he didn't & was living off me. Whoever up there said she might feel like she's being used could very well be right... that's how I felt. It's hard to say what exactly she means by feeling unsecure without knowing more details, but living with someone who even seems to be okay living off of you when you work hard for your income and are yourself not happy at work is a wretched feeling. I ended up feeling nothing but resentment toward him and we broke up years ago. Granted, he was an ass and we had other problems. If this is the only problem between you two, the fix seems easy to me... get a job... I know it's not easy to do these days, but as long as you put effort into a search, that should help.
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