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Originally Posted by Shauk
Wow, i'm surprised at the responses in this thread.
None of you seem to be addressing the long term with your suggestions. Even the OP glosses over the major issue with temporary fixes.
listen, I know little, but I know this. She wants you to man up
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I highlighted what I was going to say to you. That and the fact that you are fighting millions of years of biology. Everyone can say they are so enlightened and independent and feminist and blahblahblah, but if you don't consider you are still fighting millions of years of biology you are kidding yourself.
I'm not saying she's some sort of gold-digger, nor should she be. I am saying that there is a reason that certain things happen with human relationships (like many women liking assholes), even if ultimately that is not what is good for us (many women would prefer not to like assholes, they just are attracted to many traits that assholes have that are predictors for success).
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