whenever you think of her, try to remember vividly something awful she did to you or an awful experience she had with you.
distance allows us to idealize, especially when it's an ex. you want to feel like she was great but there must be some reason why you two didn't work out. focusing on that will train your brain to associate the bad truth with her beautiful body.
remember, all that glitters is not gold!
and no worries man, we all go through it...breakups are rough on almost everyone's psyche.
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