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Originally Posted by katyg
Maybe I should re-phrase my question; how did you guys meet your current partner and build a connection?
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First off ... I wouldn't take relationship advice from myself. This is always "learn as you go".
I thing differences give you something to talk about and similarities give you something to do together. You just need to find a balance you can live with.
I think "looking for a partner" is the surest way to fail. Being actively social and just going with the flow worked better for me.
I met my wife in a judo class when we were 9. We were beating the crap out of each other before we started dating. We went our own ways and never really started dating until our 20s.
I'm an active, rural, outdoors kind of guy and look for the same in a woman. Choice of activities and most every thing else was negotiable.