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The biggest thing is to be honest to yourself first - if you can't even do that, then there's no way you can communicate to someone else your expectations and desires out of a sex fun arrangement.
Also - Love =! Sex in all instances. It sounds like your friend is leaping from sex to relationships and so therefore is judging any person for relationship quality.
I have people that if the opportunity arose and we were both free and interested, I'd totally jump their bones, but I would never enter into a relationship with them, despite the sexual chemistry.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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