Yep, sounds like a double-standard. I don't see why there should be one.
Maybe your friends are worried about this guy using you. Do they not understand that you're happily consenting to these solicitations?
On another note:
Do you want a women's-only perspective? That's what we get when we post in the protected area that is the Ladies' Lounge. I can move the thread to Sexuality for you if you'd like the men to weigh in.
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"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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