I guess I don't understand the question. Are you supposed to "act" when you get older or can you just be yourself? I think if you're a genuine and nice person, it could come across as "classy" but if you seem like you're trying too hard, it might just seem like you're a bit stuck up/high maintenance for a friend.
But I'll just stick with my original assessment that I'm not really sure if I understand your thought process on this.
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