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The short answer is no.
How you choose to heal is very important. Don't hold the crimes of this one man against all potential suitors, and expect the same. Your past does fashion who you are. If you are going to go through the pain, you might as well take notes along the way and learn something. So, when you see these signs in future mates, work towards fixing it immediately or get out immediately. Otherwise, what was the point of going through all this pain?
It will take some time, but if you keep your wits about you, you'll be fine. Personally, I wouldn't hold this sort of thing against a potential mate. I also wouldn't ask in the "interview" stage. I was surprised you said your friends asked that. Sounds pretty rude to me.
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