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Originally Posted by Plan9
What the hell? I don't like that vibe at all. It sounds like friggin' extortion. Who cares about what he wants?
How about she imagines (a) herself married to this man, not having a child or (b) no longer in a relationship with this man.
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Sure, it's "Duh!" easy to say that the woman here can go get a man who'll knock her up.
It's just as easy to say he can find someone who doesn't need a human tumor to be happy.
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You raise interesting points, but he asked us to help him sort out how he feels. She is obviously doing the same on her end. As soon as she posts, we will ask her the inverse questions. Until then, we can only help him. It's not like we are turning him to the dark side or anything. There's no reason for vitriol regarding kids. If it isn't your thing, no big deal. No one's pushing it on you, at least not here. I've got 1000s of generations of people to support the fact that there must be something beneficial to it.