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Plan9 · 04-07-2010, 12:36 PM

My first marriage was largely terminated in a cloud of "you don't want to have kids right now so I'm going to cheat on you." That sucks.

It's okay to be selfish, Tres. It really is. You can find a woman who will understand your motivation not to pop out another drooling poo-factory.

Don't give up the prospect of higher education, world travel, and driving a Ferrari at 48 so you can be like all your lame-ass friends.

Kids are a popular hobby but they don't have to be your hobby.

04-07-2010, 12:36 PM	#9 (permalink)
Plan9 I Confess a Shiver	My first marriage was largely terminated in a cloud of "you don't want to have kids right now so I'm going to cheat on you." That sucks. It's okay to be selfish, Tres. It really is. You can find a woman who will understand your motivation not to pop out another drooling poo-factory. Don't give up the prospect of higher education, world travel, and driving a Ferrari at 48 so you can be like all your lame-ass friends. Kids are a popular hobby but they don't have to be your hobby. __________________ *Whatever you can carry.* "You should not drink... and bake." Last edited by Plan9; 04-07-2010 at 12:38 PM..