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i was in your shoes not very long ago.
when i got hitched many moons ago, i was all for the idea of having kids. over time, my ideas changed. i became a different person to the one that was married at such a young age, and in time i became against the idea of having kids until i was 'ready'.
no amount of pressure would change my mind. i wouldnt have a piece of anyones' mind. and when people told me that having kids would change my world for the better, i would brush it off.
fast forward 8 months, and that advice was probably the most accurate ive been given. my outlook on life has changed and i look forward to every minute iwth him. i regret not taking my fathers advice - i was an abnoxious cock.
sure, its not your fathers kid, but at 27, you think you know it all. Let me tell you something, at 27 you know shit and dont have the foresight like the older folks have.
ultimately the choice is yours, but dont discount the advice of your family and peers. if you're going to wait till you're ready, you'll never be.
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