I've been in a lot of fights as an adult. Gotten my shit rocked... and I've inflicted some pretty bad damage on others. Some deserved it... some most likely didn't.
As I've gotten older I've calmed down a lot and learned how to resolve heated situations without violence. Like Ratbastid said, an offer of a drink can be just what is needed. Or to simply walk away and ignore the issue. Ten years ago I would have never walked away from a fight. I would be the first one to throw a punch or swing a bat.
Some times you have to see the worst in yourself before you can find the good.
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