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I have to agree with some of the other posters in saying that this is not really such a terrible problem to have. I understand your frustration and also think you should share these feelings with your SO and maybe they will agree and be open to some variety.
My SO and I have been together for 16 years and have always had a great sex life but I would bet that every couple (me included) goes through some "slow" or routine times depending on schedules or changes going on in your lives.
One thing my husband and I do is find days to have a lunchtime "quickie". When I am working, he picks me up and we go find somewhere to be intimate. If I am off for the day he comes home on his lunch break and we do it in the living room, or diningroom, or anywhere BUT the bedroom. It makes us feel like kids again and like we did in the beginning of our relationship when we couldnt wait to tear each other apart. Sometimes it is really beneficial to talk about or remember the very early times in your relationship when you were full of lust for each other....never forget that and try to always find ways to stir it up! Hope that helps.
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