Oh goodness, a lot of anxst over a little matter. I understand sex is important but this is both psychological as well as physical. The reason it has gotten out of hand is because the both of you have blown it out of proportion. Make out like this, screw like this, etc etc. Tell her to get off the birth control (It really messes with womens hormones) and see her doctor about managing the pain that accompanies the cycle.
THEN have her exercise (very often, like 4 out of 7 days) and wait for the results. Unfortunately you'll have to be celibate for the better part of her recovery. Shouldn't take more than two months. No more long talks about how this is hurting you and all that bull. You'll have your hand and it's only temporary.
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