Okay, I was in a very similar situation maybe 6 months ago. No sex drive, sex hurt, I tried a few different forms of bc and nothing changed.
I knew sex was important for im2smrt4u and it wasn't to me before I got off the birth control. So when I had enough money to do it I went and had the Paragaurd IUD inserted.
I have no children, if she finds the right gyno that won't matter. I went to a gyno I trusted and paid out of pocket because insurance would only cover insertion. There is paperwork you can fill out to ask for assistance in paying for the device, they may be able to lower it or use programs to pay for it. I won't lie cramps hurt like a bitch, but it is SO WORTH IT! I just take ibuprophen and I am good.
I have a sex drive again! No more cringing when my hunny comes near me, I pounce on him now. I feel like my old self again. Show her my post and while I know you must have posted anon for a reason, feel free to pm me any questions she may have with the whole process.
Convey to her the issue better get her to understand some how.
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