Since Muffincakes seems to be MIA it may make little difference if I comment or not but I just couldn't resist. As I have understood it in the past, I don't believe that it's recommended for a man to have anal sex while wearing any piercings, particularly a PA as it opens the urethra to UTI's much more easily. It provides a location for bacteria to hide out and grow. One of the most common bacteria that cause UTI's are E-Coli, one of the most common bacteria in the lower intestinal tract. So Muffincakes or any other woman could say they were not being selfish but extra careful for both partners.

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