Well, this is a bad situation but your exit strategy if it comes to that is set-up pretty well, with only four months left on the lease. You need to have another conversation with her and discuss the previous conversations where she said things will change but two days later it's back to the same old thing. Tell her she either needs to see her gynecologist and have a frank discussion with him/her to get to the bottom of the problem, or you will have to assume that this isn't important enough to her and you will leave her. Then give her a couple months to find a solution, if she doesn't then you can time the break up to happen shortly before the lease ends.
This sounds cold but the bottom line is that sex is important to you, and if it's not important to her anymore your relationship is doomed. It's just not viable for the long run so you might as well get out sooner rather than later. Good luck.
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