Alright, so the basic situation is as follows:
My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years and 4 months. I'm 24, she's 22. Our relationship began very well, sexually we were open to do whatever, whenever, wherever. It was great.
Then, about a year into our relationship, so about 2 years ago, she got the Depo shot for Birth Control. It destroyed her sex drive, and made her really moody. So she got off of that after 6 months, and decided to go on the nuova (spelling) ring. This improved her mood, but her sex drive is still non-existent.
Other birth control options are limited, she really dislikes condoms, and is to forgetful to take the pill on a consistent basis.
Other stuff: She has gotten really particular about certain things, I have to kiss her a certain way, we have to make out in a certain order (this before this, etc), and anything other than sex is out of the question. We used (a long time ago) have fun with bondage stuff, ropes, role-playing, etc but now that's a distant memory.
Theres so much, its hard to condense to a post, here are the cliffnotes:
She doesn't get turned on before or during sex.
She has no sex drive at all.
She doesn't care if we go 2 months without having sex, and doesn't think its important to the relationship.
Really, as I type this out, I'm almost talking myself into breaking up with her. The only problem is, outside of the bedroom, we are a great match. Very similar interests, great conversations, etc. But the problems in the bedroom are just to much at times. We also live together, but there is only 4 months left on the lease, so thats not a huge concern, aside from the absurd level of akwardness that would result.
I dunno, I'm really just looking for advice from anyone in a similar situation.
Sorry for the long post, and thanks in advance for any help you guys can offer.
