As I see it, it's her own fault for being hurt. If she doesn't want to get her feelings hurt, she shouldn't offer sex while drunk/high. She put herself in the situation to get hurt.
That said, you also contributed to this by not walking away when you could have--and probably should have. Sex changes things. So now you owe to the both of you to have a frank discussion about what happened if you want to keep your friendship.
This is why you don't do one night stands with friends--friends of friends are a good bet though, especially friends of friends that are "just visiting."
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