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Originally Posted by Plan9
Don't fuck where you hang out. They'll just sniff each other's fingers behind your back and tell nasty stories when you piss them off.
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So true. You are going to end up being the "club whore", even if you only have sex with this one guy.
While your attempt at sounding like you are just totally okay with this arrangement, it doesn't take much reading between the lines that you aren't. If I can detect that in your writing, I would imagine your tone and body language is just screaming "needy, clingy" to this guy. Follow Vigilante's advice, it's your best shot. And never, EVER, give one guy in a group of guy friends the "friends with benefits" arrangement. You have to arrange that outside your circle of true friends.
Frankly, you sound like you want a boyfriend, more than you are willing to admit. There's nothing wrong with wanting a boyfriend, BTW. It's quite normal.