I have been dating my girlfriend for about four months now. I was experienced in the sexual field she wasn't. however, we were both virgins. We hung put several times before doing anything sexual. by about halfway through the second month she would come over with no parents home and we would do everything but sex. Until once, i was on top of her and all of the sudden my erection went down. I had been on top of her many times before and actually prefer it. I could not get my erection back up. From then till about a month ago it had been on and off with my ability to stay erect. One day, about a month ago it was going very well, so i decided to have sex with her. We did it and it was the most amazing sexual feeling ever.
However, now, it has since been roughly a month later and i have attempted to have sex with her 6 times and each time i cant seem to get it up. I get up to begin with, and she blows me and its up, but as soon as the idea of sex pops into my noggin it goes down and i cant get it back up.
I have read other forums on this site and others, and they all say the same thing; relax. I have tried to no end to relax and nothing seems to work. I have confronted the girl about it and she understands my nervousness, but both of us think it should be gone by now... She says she loves me for me, and not my dick. but I can help feeling like i let her down with my penis.
My whole life i have drempt what sex would feel like and all the dirty stuff i would do to a girl once i got her clothes off. not once did i think about what would happen if i couldn't get it up...
i thought about Viagra, but i have no problem getting it up when I am alone. So i quickly pushed that out of my thoughts.
Maybe just by the fact that i am researching this on the computer means I am thinking about it too much... I am not going to lie... i feel very embarrassed and i just want this problem resolved and in the past. I take no medications of any kind of anything that could affect me sexually.
I really think my problem is that i am too nervous. i just need help not being so nervous :/
HELP, I BEG YOU!
