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Don't waste your life and her's by taking a "just because" attitude.
One question to ask yourself whenever you're in a relationship: do you think you would be better off without her? (i.e. are you going to keep your eye out for that soulmate the whole time you're with her?)
A dishonest relationship is a poisoned one. If you don't love her, then tell her so.
It's easy to get comfortable, and breaking up is hard to do, but sometimes it's the right thing to do.
Think about it: Is it just cold feet (a fear of commitment; you feel you're moving too quickly)? Or are you just not that into her (she's not your type; it's just not working out; there isn't really any chemistry)?
There is a huge difference.
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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