It's none of her business if or when you start dating a new person, unless you are cheating on her. The only thing she needs to know is that you are no longer interested in her. Telling her you have a new girl in mind would just hurt her even more. Although, it could also serve the purpose of showing her that you are serious about moving on this time. Personally, I wouldn't tell any ex a damn thing about my future life except that they are no longer going to be a part of it.
If you do tell her that you have someone new, she would probably try to question you about it and drag the breaking up part out. It just isn't a good idea.
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Last edited by Lady Bear Cub; 02-11-2010 at 08:05 AM..
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