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Originally Posted by bagatelle
I'm wondering what made you decide to break up. Like someone said, you probably could have needed couple's conseling.
We only hear your side of the story, which is, you definitely know, you aren't going to be a couple. Something made you decide this, but could you get over it? Are you afraid to make it a permanent commitment? Afraid to get hurt?
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She lied, and then did it again and again, and tried to hide it progressively. She lost my trust and she knows this. There were other issues too, and she's the one with commitment issues, not me.
Funny that people assume because I'm the guy, I'm the one taking HER for a ride.
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In a way this sounds to me, you're not sure. Now that you added the info about mutual agreement on not sleeping with others
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Like I said, I'm like that regardless of having to spell it out.
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You're insecure about her now, not knowing if she is seeing others. It seems to matter to you.
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She very well could be, because she might just be like that, and also I've been away and what not, we've probably spent half the time since the break up entirely on our own.