What a rollercoaster. First you're in then you're out then you're up then your down. This is so typically women-are-from-venus-men-are-from-mars. She's emotionally attached to you and you're just dangling your carrot in front of her for good-times and convenience. You keep giving her mixed messages. First you break up with her, then decide to see her with conditions that work for you (but not for her). It's a hurtful game.
And she needs to wake up and see that some men are hunters by nature...once they have their prey the excitement is over. That is with the exception of a few hopeless romantics out there (gotta love'em) and a few men of integrity, and a few men who respect women. But you're playing selfish games with her so she needs to play smarter. She needs to not be so available, not to be so needy, wean herself from dependence...and then run like hell.
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..."Say what you think. Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind" ~ Dr. Seuss
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