if you can avoid it.. do. but they can "work" meaning if you work hard on em you can make it last untill you can be together.
my marriage has been abotu 80% long distance from the begining and basically that sucks.
only real advice i can give you is when you DO finnally get together. do it for either 2-3 days at a shot or long haul because the noviltey of some one wears off after the first few days. then things get wierd for a few weeks as you adjust to being aroudn each other again (expecially if you are living together) me and the wife its always " OMG your home YAY" for abotu 2 days then it turns into " why are you still in my house" for a few weeks untill you figure how to live together back out.
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