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You're getting serious but haven't met her friends yet? Have you slept with her yet?
I pretty much agree with the crowd here. If this is a dealbreaker for you, it's a dealbreaker. No need to whine to us about it. Just be prepared for the consequences of your own decisions.
Personally I think it's suspicious. People worthy of my trust are upfront about their plans, particularly plans that involve other people and potentially touchy situations. If the relationship were one of mutual respect, this conversation would've included an opportunity for you to voice your feelings on the matter before decisions were made. Not that your feelings should be allowed to make the decision, but you should've been heard before it was a fait accompli.
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