Originally Posted by Anonymous Member

If no one's taking you up on your offers or they're not showing up to your gatherings, there's probably a good reason for it. Re-evaluate what you have going on. Do you have cats and the place smells like a litter box? Are you cheap when it comes to snack foods or beverages? Maybe you're a little bit desperate and it's evident to those around you? Or are you a prick?

Step outside of the box and make a few notes from an outsider's point of view. You might see things you didn't before.