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Okay, so let's be clear here: this girl is not your girlfriend and you are getting your panties in a twist over her sharing a hotel room with what is likely just a platonic friend.
You need to calm down. This girl is not your property. She is her own person. If you have not defined what your relationship is, you really have no claim on her. If you wish to be with her, you need to respect her decisions and trust her. Otherwise, you are better off just walking away.
If the shoe was on the other foot--if it was you staying in a hotel room with a friend who was a girl in another town, and the girl you are seeing asked you not to, would you? Would you really give up a fun weekend with a good friend?
The fact of the matter is that every relationship is built on trust. If you cannot trust her--and I am not saying she has done anything in any way to violate your trust, in fact, I think you are being unreasonably jealous for no apparent reason--then you cannot have a relationship.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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