If you won't budge on this, I think you should break it off with her before she breaks it off with you. You might salvage some self-esteem that way.
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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