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something i've learnt the hard way is to never, ever send a text message when you are emotional. ever. it will not do you any favors. if you feel the need to do so, write the thing out first, save it, wait an appropriate amount of time for you to calm down, then send it. or bettter yet, as others have suggested, just talk it over.
At this point, given that the ultimatum is already out there, you need to talk to her face-to-face, one on one, as soon as possible. Regardless of whether or not you choose to continue the relationship. I'd let her know you overreacted with the text and then calmly tell her that you feel this way in a reasonable manner so she has a chance to react. Odds are if she's as into the relationship as you are, she'll back down given the appropriate chance. if she's not, she'll go anyway, and you two are done with.
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