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james t kirk · 01-05-2010, 08:15 PM

I have one female friend I've never slept with in 26 years now. May have if the opportunity had of arisen in the past - but it never did - so we did not. Probably the same for her. She's married now. I can tell her husband finds me moderately intimidating, but neither of us cares. My ex used to make a HUGE ordeal about my friendship with her and wanted me to end my friendship with her. But I never did. It was a HUGE reoccuring arguement with my ex.

I have 3 other female friends (note - they were friends, never GFs) who I have slept with in the past, but we are not bonking at the current time. We are all still friends even after the sex ended. We may or may not sleep together again ine future, it just depends on the timing. (Timing is everything.) Right now, speaking for myself, I have no plans to sleep with any one of them. So we remain "just friends".

I'm also on speaking terms with a few ex GF's and see them from time to time for dinner, or social occasions. Not currently sleeping with any of them and really don't desire to either at the current time. Maybe things will change in the future - you never know. My current GF asked me just the other week which of my ex's I'd like to sleep with if given the opportunity. I had to think about it for a while. Only one came to mind and I haven't seen her in 10 years or so. (Though we email on occasion.)

I am not currently (secretly or otherwise) lusting after any other women - friends or otherwise.

01-05-2010, 08:15 PM	#10 (permalink)
james t kirk Junkie Location: Toronto	I have one female friend I've never slept with in 26 years now. May have if the opportunity had of arisen in the past - but it never did - so we did not. Probably the same for her. She's married now. I can tell her husband finds me moderately intimidating, but neither of us cares. My ex used to make a HUGE ordeal about my friendship with her and wanted me to end my friendship with her. But I never did. It was a HUGE reoccuring arguement with my ex. I have 3 other female friends (note - they were friends, never GFs) who I have slept with in the past, but we are not bonking at the current time. We are all still friends even after the sex ended. We may or may not sleep together again ine future, it just depends on the timing. (Timing is everything.) Right now, speaking for myself, I have no plans to sleep with any one of them. So we remain "just friends". I'm also on speaking terms with a few ex GF's and see them from time to time for dinner, or social occasions. Not currently sleeping with any of them and really don't desire to either at the current time. Maybe things will change in the future - you never know. My current GF asked me just the other week which of my ex's I'd like to sleep with if given the opportunity. I had to think about it for a while. Only one came to mind and I haven't seen her in 10 years or so. (Though we email on occasion.) I am not currently (secretly or otherwise) lusting after any other women - friends or otherwise. Last edited by james t kirk; 01-05-2010 at 08:18 PM..